Mingle Extra matches on what you are both looking for, where you each want to meet, and what you have in common. Both sides have to be a good fit, not just one.
Meeting people online only works if you can decide who reaches you and what they see. These are not paid extras.
Photo verification, free
Confirm the person in your photos is you and carry a verified badge. It costs nothing on every plan, and you can filter your discovery to verified members only.
Block and report, free
Block anyone and they disappear from your discovery, your messages and your visitors. Reporting is always available and never behind a plan.
You decide what is visible
Choose whether your gender shows on your profile, who can message you, and whether you appear in discovery at all. Your birthday is never shown, only your age.
Location stays approximate
Distance is used for matching, but your exact position is never published on your profile. You can set your area by hand instead of sharing it.
Adults only
You confirm you are 18 or older to register, and the date of birth you give is checked against that before your profile can go live.
Your account, secured
Two factor authentication, active session review and sign in alerts are all in your settings, so you can see where your account is being used.
Report anything that feels wrong.
Our community rules explain what is not allowed and what happens when someone breaks them. Read the community rules
International
Near you, or the other side of the world
You can set your country from all 253 we support, and choose whether you want to meet people in your city, your country, your region, or anywhere at all.
If you pick your own country and it is quiet, we tell you and widen the search rather than showing you an empty page. If you deliberately chose that country, we leave your choice alone.
Africa
Asia
Europe
The Americas
Middle East
Oceania
Filter by the languages you speak
Pay in your own currency
Illustrative. Who you actually see is decided by your own distance and preference settings.
Matching
Both of you have to fit
Most matching only asks whether they suit you. We score it in both directions and combine the two, so a one sided match does not reach the top of anyone's feed.
What the score is made of
These are the actual weights the matching uses today.
What you are each here for22%
Age you are both looking for16%
How far apart you are16%
Interests you share14%
Languages you both speak12%
Lifestyle that lines up10%
Country, region and city10%
Scored in both directions
How well they suit you, and how well you suit them, combined so that a weak side pulls the result down. One person being keen is not a match.
Your filters are absolute
Age, gender, distance and verification are hard limits. Nothing you are shown will ever fall outside them, no matter what the platform learns about you.
It learns, within your limits
Who you like and who you actually talk to reorders the people who already match you. It never adds someone your settings excluded.
People who reply, rank higher
Profiles that read messages and answer them are surfaced ahead of profiles that never respond, so your effort goes somewhere.
You can see why someone was suggested.
Each suggestion carries the reasons behind it, so the matching is something you can check rather than something you have to trust.
Inside
Different ways to find someone
One feed suits one mood. These are the views you get, and every one of them respects the filters you set.
Illustration. Distance is measured from the location you set, and nothing is shown until you set one.
For you
People you may like
Your main feed. Ranked on mutual fit, then adjusted by what you have actually responded to.
Close by
Nearby
The same matching, sorted by distance, for when you would rather meet somebody in person soon.
Online
Active now
People who have been here recently, so a message has a chance of being read today.
Fresh
New members
Recently joined and still looking. New profiles get a fair chance instead of sinking under older ones.
Confirmed
Verified only
Restrict everything you see to members who have confirmed their photos are really them.
Talk
Messages and calls
Text, photos, voice notes and video calling, all inside the site. You never have to hand over a personal number to talk.
Video and voice
See and hear someone before you meet
Messages only tell you so much. Calling inside the app lets you find out whether there is anything there before you give anyone your number or agree to meet.
Video calls between matches, inside the app
Voice calls when you would rather just talk
Your phone number is never shared to place a call
Block or report from the call, the same as from a chat
Across cities
Dating that is not limited to your postcode
Set your search to your own city if that is what you want. Widen it to your country, your region, or anywhere at all, and the matching follows you.
Illustration. Not photographs of members, and not testimonials.
Everything that keeps you safe stays free. Verification, blocking and reporting are on every account. Premium changes how much reach you get, not who you are allowed to meet.
Boost your profile for a set window, so more of the people you fit see you while it runs
Browse in incognito and stay out of other members discovery until you like them first
Hide your online status and decide for yourself when you look available
Paying lifts how often you are shown. It never overrides what someone is looking for.
